Good “get to know you” questions to ask a guy

The first few dates you go on with a guy is known as the “getting to know you” phase. Naturally, in the course of trying to know more about the person you’re dating, you will have to ask certain questions. However, you will have to be a bit careful when asking these questions. You will need them to be tactful ones so as not to freak your date out and drive him away. Instead of asking deeply personal questions like, “What went wrong with your last relationship?”, ask fun but interesting questions whose answers will nevertheless give you a complete picture of what the man you’re going out with is really like.

A good starting point would be questions that ask what his favorite things in life are. It is very common for women who are out on a first date to ask the man in front of her what his favorite movies, actors, books, TV shows and music artists are. As you go out some more, ask him questions like:

1. What kind of activity do you love doing?

2. Do you like pets?

3. What is your favorite food or cuisine?

4. What is your favorite clothing brand?

5. What are your favorite quotes?

6. What household chore do you really hate?

7. What is your favorite type of exercise?

8. Do you cook?

9. Who is the person you admire the most?

10. What did you want to be when you were still a kid?

 It is also nice to go with hypothetical questions because the answers you’ll get can really be fun and eye-opening at the same time!

Among the “if” interrogatives you can ask are:

1. If you were given three wishes, what would they be?

2. If you were omnipotent for a day, what would you do?

3. If you can become a fictional character, who would you want most to be?

4. If you win the lottery jackpot, what would you do?

5. If you were given a superpower, what would you want it to be?

6. If you found a bag full of money, what are you going to do?

7. If you were stranded on an island, name three things that you would want to have with you.

8. If your life story was turned into a movie, which actor would you choose to play you?

9. If you had the chance to meet any famous person living or dead, who would you want it to be?

10. What would you want to learn if given the chance to learn it instantly?

Eventually, personal questions will have to work their way into your conversations.

1. Do you believe in God?

2. What’s the wildest or most reckless thing you have done in your life?

3. What is the first thing you noticed about me?

4. When was the last time you cried?

5. What do you think of public displays of affection or PDA?

6. What is your most embarrassing moment?

7. Have you ever been in love before?

8. What was the most difficult decision you’ve ever had to make?

9. What kind of relationship are you looking for right now?

10. What is your biggest regret in life?

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